君生我未生，我生君已老，得不到的，愈顯珍貴

《君生我未生》-君生我未生，我生君已老。君恨我生遲，我恨君生早。君生我未生，我生君已老。恨不生同時，日日與君好。我生君未生，君生我已老。我離君天涯，君隔我海角。我生君未生，君生我已老。化蝶去尋花，夜夜棲芳草。

“君生我未生，我生君已老”、“我離君天涯，君隔我海角”。出生早與出生遲的遺憾，天涯與海角的距離。大齡男子捨不得破壞女子在自己心中的形象，也捨不得破壞自己在女子心中的形象，所以，明明知道女子對自己的愛，卻沒有選擇和女子在一起。或許，男子已經結婚，或許男子早已單身，但是，男子知道自己老了，給不了那女子長久的幸福。

面對心愛的女子狠心拒絕，最終選擇了放棄。想用自己的冷漠，打消女子心中的念頭，不想心中的女子卻始終沒有忘記。這裡落淚的不是愛，而是愛的遺憾， 因為，這樣的遺憾，太美太純潔。只恨我生君已老，斷腸崖前憶故人。

世間安得雙全法，不負如來不負卿。人生最不應該的恐怕就是在不正確的時間遇到了一個心愛的人吧！相愛的男女，因生不逢時、陰差陽錯、有緣無分，終不能雙棲雙飛。這種悽美的遺恨、嘆息是很傷人的：衣帶漸寬終不悔，為伊消得人憔悴。但願這樣的事不要在下一代身上發生。願我們的下一代，珍惜愛情，珍惜緣分，讓天下有情人皆成眷屬。

另附英文版的《君生我未生》

I was not when you were born，You were old when I was born，I was not when you were born，You were old when I was born，You regret that I was late born，I regret that you were early born，I was not when you were born,You were old when I was born,I wished to have been born together，We could enjoy our time together，You were not when I was born，I was old when you were born，I was so far away from youYou ，were so distant from me，You were not when I was born，I was old when you were born，I'd become a flower-seeking butterfly，And sleep on the fragrant grass every night.

英文的翻譯，讀起來亦美的有點不像話。