《歡樂頌2》邱瑩瑩因為不是處女被甩？連BBC都來圍觀報道了

歡樂頌 BBC S.H.E THE SHOW 21世紀英文報 2017-06-03

五美一臺戲的《歡樂頌2》播得正火，劇中的幾對CP也在最大程度上滿足了吃瓜群眾的八卦屬性。然而，最近邱瑩瑩和應勤這一對兒卻引起了爭議。在電視劇中，“小兩口”本來相處得不錯，大家也挺看好，結果卻因為“處女”問題分手。

這一話題甚至引起了BBC的強勢圍觀↓↓↓

中國最火的電視劇《歡樂頌2》中的這一情景引發了一波討論：處女是否仍然是當今中國女性的珍貴資產。

The scene from China's biggest soap opera right now, Ode to Joy 2, has triggered much discussion on whether virginity is still a prized asset for women in modern China.

《歡樂頌》正播出第二季，講述五位同在上海來自不同行業卻住在同一層公寓的美女們的故事。《歡樂頌》可以說是《慾望都市》的含蓄版本，很受女性觀眾歡迎，該劇聚焦大城市中女性的愛情、事業、友誼和麵臨的困境等方面。

Ode to Joy, now in its second season, tells the stories of five beautiful women from different walks of life who live in the same floor of an apartment complex in Shanghai. The show, a less risque version of Sex and the City, is popular among women for its focus on romance, careers, friendships and the difficulties women face in the big city.

在這一幕中，邱瑩瑩宴請大家，順便把男朋友應勤介紹給姐妹們，然而卻意外被抖摟出來和前任發生過關係。

In the scene, she holds a dinner party to introduce her boyfriend to her friends, but the evening turns dramatic after her neighbour accidentally exposes her past relationship.

此前一直是“暖男”人設的應勤突然翻臉，當即分手，更爆出許多“直男癌”式的言論。

馬上學：除了virgin，英文中也可以用maiden指“未婚少女，處女”，引申為“首次的”。比如船隻的處女航即為maiden voyage，指船隻在水中第一次正式航行。

BBC同時關注起了中國的性教育問題↓↓↓

過時的話題？

'Out-of-dated topic'

性教育在中國的現狀堪憂，經常出現男教師在課堂上跳過女性生殖系統的知識細節，而讓學生們自學。而家長也很少跟孩子們分享性教育方面的信息。

Sex education in China is often poor. There are stories of male biology teachers skipping details of the female reproductive system in class and asking students to learn it by themselves. And parents very rarely share information about sex with their children.

大多數家長的做法，通常是警告他們的女兒不要在大學畢業前約會，擔心她們受到傷害或者懷孕。同時，在中國社會的傳統觀念中，也希望女性在婚前保持貞潔。

What almost all parents do, however, is warn their daughters not to have any dates before they graduate from university, fearing that they get hurt or become pregnant. Chinese communities also traditionally expect chastity before marriage.

這也意味著，電視劇對於觀眾價值觀的形成很有影響力。對於年輕觀眾，特別是年輕女性觀眾，電視劇是她們瞭解性方面的知識以及改變看法的窗口。

That means TV dramas are very influential in shaping audiences' values. They are windows for young audiences, especially young women, to understand sex and sexuality and the ways views are changing.

處女問題的雙標

Double standards on virginity

BBC也就這個問題進行了採訪。一位名叫紫銀（音）的影視助理出品人就認為，這個話題在21世紀過時了，電視劇拿處女問題博眼球很“噁心”，在現代城市中，女性更加獨立、解放。“貞潔並不是困擾那些大城市中——比如上海和深圳——受過良好教育女性的問題，獨立且聰明的女性被鼓勵、被教育去成為中國的女性領導人或者在職業生涯中取得更高的成就。”

Zi Yin, a Shanghai-based film assistant producer, told the BBC that even debating the topic was old-fashioned in the 21st Century. She thought it was "disgusting" for the show to make an issue of it. In modern cities, women are more independent and liberated, she said. "The virginity issue doesn't trouble those well-educated women in China's big cities like Shanghai and Shenzhen," she told the BBC. "The independent and smart ladies are educated and encouraged to become China's female president or to achieve high in their career."

同樣，也有觀眾持不同看法，比如電視劇的粉絲裴子夜（音）就表示，如果男朋友保持貞潔，他有理由要求他的女朋友保持貞潔。問題就在於，男性面對這個問題時，是否“嚴於待人，寬於律己”地採取了雙重標準。這一話題在她的大學同學和朋友圈裡引發了大討論。

But not everyone agrees the virginity debate is over. One of Ode to Joy's female fans, Ziye Pei, told the BBC it was perfectly reasonable for a boyfriend who was a virgin himself to require his girlfriend to be so. The only problem, she said, was if it was a double standard and the man expected chastity from a woman but not himself. The issue was also being discussed by her university classmates in a social media group chat on China's Twitter-like site, WeChat.

這引發另外的思考：在婚前貞潔的問題上，也有性別不平等嗎？而回到劇情上，很多人也不認可邱瑩瑩自己對於婚前性行為的評論。

Someone questioned why there wasn't gender equality when it came to chastity, but another said she couldn't accept Ying Qin's comment on women who had sex before marriage.

《歡樂頌2》的劇情還在推進，應勤和邱瑩瑩也可能重歸於好，只不過關於處女的問題，可能還要討論下去，無論是在影視劇中，還是在真實生活中。