什麼是溝通 !（精闢）

什麼是，溝通？

溝通是有了誤會及時說明，

有了意見直接提出，

有了矛盾互相認錯。

為什麼要溝通？

沒有溝通，

人和人之間就有了隔閡，

心和心之間就有了距離。

Between two people,

Without communication, there is no continuity.

No connection, no emotion.

If one does not ask, one does not say,

Familiar people,

And gradually there will be no common language.

Deep feelings,

It will gradually find no fulcrum.

Not even the desire to talk and listen.

This relationship has almost come to an end.

兩個人的溝通，

70%是情緒，30%是內容。

情緒不對，內容就會被扭曲。

沒有良好的情緒，

心裡話就說不出來，

真心話就聽不進去。

說話陰陽怪氣，

讓人誤以為是挑釁。

脾氣一觸即發，

把溝通變成了吵架。

To communicate, be sincere.

Peaceful mood, sincere tone.

The one who cures your temper is the one you love.

Those who can stand your temper are those who love you.

If you can control your emotions, you are the active person.

Being controlled by emotion, you are doomed to be passive.

有時，生活就是一種妥協，

一種忍讓，一種遷就。

並非所有的事情，

都適宜針鋒相對，鏗鏘有力。

強硬有強硬的好處，

忍讓有忍讓的優勢。

妥協不一定全是軟弱，

忍讓不一定就是無能。

Learn to communicate with others.

Learn to control your temper.

Learn to adjust your mood.

Never get angry with the person who loves you the most.

Never let your loved ones grieve!