家長不教育孩子，社會不會輕易放過他

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In recent years, we have been talking about parenting.

Because we found that the economy went up, the pockets were bulging, but the education did not go up, the Chinese tourists in foreign scandals.

At home, I don't say what you know about it.

I didn't care much about my upbringing. My own principle was to try not to disturb others and not cause problems for others. After having children, I began to pay more attention to this problem, especially the children's education.

Because I don't want my child to be an annoying person, and I want him to be a gentleman.

Why does a child have to pay attention? Because the child is like a mirror, according to the many shortcomings of parents. In fact, children often do not understand the etiquette requirements, the parents need to be in control of their own time, also teach the child.

For example, take your child out for a meal in the last few days and hang out with some playmates, and immediately begin to shout, the child is excited, and his voice is very loud.

It's difficult to control emotions and behavior for a three-year-old child, but parents should be as disciplined as they are, not to abuse their children in public. That would only make parents more ignorant of education and less educated. Parents should set an example for their children and then gently tell him what to do.

Of course, there are mothers who say children are too naughty to be disciplined.

It's time to reflect on what happened to your education. In the process of child development, parents must tell their children the rules and self-discipline.

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Know that children are small and grow up.

When a child makes a mistake or gets into trouble, the most common excuse I see is "little kids, no problem!" So two or three years old kids pee on the wall next to my warehouse. I can't blame it! Because the mother says the child is small, not understanding!

So there was news that the child had been stoned to the side of the road, and the mother turned a blind eye, so that the angry driver kicked the child away and finally caused a lawsuit.

The reason for the wrong child's insistence is that the child is still small.

It's really a self-built halo.

Should it be the right thing to kick the blind mom?

When the child is in trouble, immediately use the child to respond. This is not responsible for the child's growth. You know, you don't have a education kid, someone will teach him a hard lesson.

I saw a mother Posting on the Internet: eating in a restaurant, because my son was a little mischievous and he was slapped! She was still trembling with anger. Originally, the mother take son go to a nearby restaurant, her son likes to look at run everywhere, at several times to harass eat crab, finally ran to the door to catch crabs on the table because it is over, after being put off, a finger on the table, the result was beaten by back...

This mother's aggrieved point probably is my child is small, the mischievous point is quite normal, how can you with him general knowledge?

But the child is still small, is also small? Why not manage your children in time?

I remember when the little fish were two years old, one was on the high-speed train. He was too excited to play games with me and laughed every time he won.

A little brother in the front row was tired of sleeping, so he said to me, "mind your child! This is not your home."

I looked at each other in a moment and apologized. Take out a picture book, help the child change a quiet mode, tell him a story.

Since then I have been more careful to take the children out of the house. Never let your child disturb others, but the most important person is me.

Don't indulge your child because he is young. Because children are small and always grow up.

If parents don't have a good time to be polite and polite to their children, they'll be forgiven for making mistakes.

Then, when one day he goes out of school and goes into society and makes some kind of bear behavior, no one will be more tolerant of him, and then the child will not bear it. Because no one else follows him that way.

Your child, you don't go to education, someone will replace you education. I hope you won't regret it.

And such bear children grow up, can be qualified parents? Can you take responsibility for education's next generation?

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Take care of yourself first, and control your children.

One mother said that once, when a family member came to the house, the son generously Shared all the toys. At last, the four - year - old boy saw a dinosaur toy, and it was the baby's favorite. Of course not, but the relatives are crying and crying to take it back.

The situation was awkward and the two children were fighting for it. At this point the child looks at his mother and hopes that his mother will save the dinosaur. And relatives smiled and looked at her, waiting for her to give the toy to the child.

In our common impression, this dinosaur should be given to the guest because the guest is honorable and can be willful.

But she knew the importance of this dinosaur to his children. So he squatted down to the relatives and said, "I'll buy you a new one next time, so you can leave it to your brother because he won't be able to sleep."

Children don't depend. Then the relatives stepped in and grabbed the toy and put it in her hand. Then the child went away.

Not even basic farewells. In fact, she would like to ask the address the next day to buy one for the child. But the other party didn't answer the phone. At the end of the day, everyone said that her family was stingy. She was hardly angry with her, but she did not regret it, for such a relation would not be paid.

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Can a child get a good upbringing in the face of such an uneducated bear? It is very difficult.

So education good boy, the parents themselves must first manage themselves. Realize that the world is not your own, and don't assume that the world will revolve around your child like you.

Know that a child is small and a dignified individual. They need to be respected, they need to be well educated. A lot of times, it is because Xiong Guchang at home, just let the child into a bear children, this is a tragedy, because when I was young children's character, behavior habit is parents affect build step by step.

Bear children's problem, isn't the responsibility of the parents themselves?

I have been hoping that children understand: this world is not say to calculate by you, also won't because you are capricious and automatic way, growth is a matter of serious concern, you have to be responsible for yourself, also want to respect each and every one around you.

Be sure to remember that your father and mother will love you forever, but the outside world is cruel. You must be a cultured person and make others feel comfortable and happy. Instead of being an annoying person.